We Can't Control The Filters That Others Choose When They Look At Us.

Saturday, June 28, 2014

Life is so complicated. It's like no matter what you do, people have something to say. We grow up with a certain standard of what's good and what's not, what to wear and what not, so when you do the "bad" stuff you get attacked by every body. But I've come to realize that even when you do the right things, even when you follow the rules, people will still have something to say. So why bother? Well in my opinion it's best to do what you feel is right for you. The most obvious example for me is plus-size ladies. They're told they shouldn't wear stripes, no crop top, no skin-showing clothes; yet some of them do and they look flawless!! I love confident people, those who don't care about what anybody think about them because at the end of the day, nobody is living in that body but them. I'm not saying to be a crazy person but to rock who you are proudly because if you don't love yourself, who will?

Anyways, this is pretty different but I like it. I wasn't sure at first when I got the skirt, but I actually quite like it! Plus I'm in love with this lipstick I have on, it's So Chaud by Mac for those who might be interested.

Oh I have braids again :D

La vie est tellement compliquee. Peu importe ce que tu fais, les gens ont quelque chose a dire. On grandit avec un certain standard de ce qui est bien et ce qui ne l'est pas, ce qu'il faut porter et ce qu'il ne faut pas porter, et donc quand tu fais les "mauvaises" choses tu te fais attaquer par tout le monde. Mais j'ai realise que meme quand tu fais les bonnes choses, meme quand tu suis les regles, les gens auront toujours quelque chose a dire. Donc pourquoi s'embeter? Moi je pense que le mieux c'est de faire ce que vous pensez est mieux pour vous. L'example le plus evident est celui des femmes rondes. On leur dit qu'elles ne devraient pas mettre des rayures, pas de haut court, pas de vetements qui laissent entrevoir leur peau; et pourtant certaines le font et elles sont magnifiques!! J'aime les gens pleins de confiance en eux, ceux qui s'en foutent de ce que les gens pensent d'eux parce qu'au final personne d'autre ne vit dans leur corps mais eux. Je ne dis pas qu'il faut etre fou non plus mais plutot etre fier de qui vous etes parce que si vous ne vous aimez pas, qui va vous aimez?

Bref, c'est assez different mais j'aime bien, Je n'etais pas sure au debut quand j'ai eu la jupe, mais j'aime plutot bien finalement! Et je suis dingue de ce RAL que j'ai sur ces pics, c'est So Chaud de Mac pour celles qui seraient interessees.

Oh et j'ai a nouveau des tresses :D

Everything (except shoes): Forever 21



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  1. This is a look! Your hair looks so great and matches with your skirt :). You're right, people will always have something to say and it's draining trying to hear them all the time; why bother is right.

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  2. Diane, I totally agree with you. It's not what you wear, it's how you wear it. Speaking of which I love love love every single detail of this look even the lipstick adds a nice touch...:)

    Happy Saturday and Have a wonderful weekend girl...:)

  3. Coucou Diane
    je suis complètement d'accord avec toi, il faut arrêter de se prendre la tête avec l'avis des gens
    l'HOMME n'est jamais satisfait donc...
    j'aime ta tenue comme toujours et très beau rouge à lèvre tendance en plus
    biz :D

    1. C'est clair, l'homme n'est jamais satisfait et c'est bien dommage.
      Merci ma belle!!! Bisous

  4. I personally prefer women with curves. I'm a skinny lady but I really believe having meat on the bones is good. I think society is fucked up as it is, people keep clinging onto trivial things and they forget the whole picture. Live and let live.
    With that said, I love your outfit and that hair of yours is spectacular ^_^

  5. I completely agree with you! We do in world where a lot of the time you are damned if you do and damned if you don't! So might as well do what you feel is right. I think as long as people are healthy then body size bigger or smaller is irrelevant. We should all be happy with ourselves :)

    Take care,
    Daniella xox

  6. You slayed it girl, people will talk no matter what, just do you. Your braids look amazing by the way.

  7. I say, give the people something to talk about. Sometimes it doesn't matter how good you look in the things they say you shouldn't wear.. haters gon' hate!

    You loook great!

    Stephanie, Chocolate Laced

  8. J'aime beaucoup le rendu de ce look
    la jupe est magnifique et les chaussures juste superbes

    1. Merci beaucoup!! C'est gentil de ta part :)

  9. fantastic double aztec look! u look hot babe! rules are meant to be broken and it's impossible to please everybody. therefore, wear whatever u feel good in :)


  10. I have a rule. I wear what I want. Dress for yourself because like anything else in life, you can't please other people. There will always be a nay-sayer. Love your skirt and this is a beautiful post.

    1. Totally agree with you!! Thank you hun!

  11. You look fab!.your body is gorgeous too....
    Confidence is attractive and it's the most important item on anyone:)

  12. Hello lovely, I just came across your blog and it's awesome! I'm your newest follower and look forward to your next post! :)

    I have a new outfit post up on my blog, I would love to know your thoughts:



    1. Thank you Helen!! :D
      I'll check your blog out

  13. Love how your hair goes so well with the skirt, super chic! x

    www.JenniferNoir.blogspot.co.uk x

  14. Where I'd you get our shoes, beautiful outfit by the way. Curvy girls rock!


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